Anonymous asked: your standards and procedures are not universal. just because you would discuss marriage with your partner it doesn't make it a law that everyone would. maybe someone would like to surprise their partner with the question. besides, the post was about what happens if they refuse, not about ways to prevent getting shutdown.
You’re right, and I apologise for having offended you. I was trying to offer a solution that seemed rational and logical to me, but I should have taken into consideration that romantic love is not a rational and logical thing. My comment was phrased indelicately, and in a way that made it seem as though anyone with a different opinion is stupid, and I’m sorry for that.
what happens if you propose to your girl and she says “no”
do y’all just resume the relationship like nothin happened or..?
I wondered this too like especially if it’s in a public ass place like people saw this uncanny swerve what then?
This is why you… hold on, this will blow your minds… discuss marriage like adult human beings and come to a mutual decision, instead of just randomly proposing.